Here is a photo of Jackie Siegel, wife of time-share company CEO David Siegel and star of the 2012 documentary The Queen of Versailles, clutching an iced drink and taking a selfie at her 18-year-old daughter Victoria’s funeral. Victoria died Saturday of an apparent overdose at the family’s “Seagull Island” mansion in Windmere, Florida.

There are many ways to grieve a traumatic loss; let each individual process death in her own way.

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